Wednesday, July 13, 2011
How to deal with my husband working all the time?
I don't know how to handle this anymore. My husband and I have been married a year. Our first year anniversary just came this past month. I had a full time job, and I got laid off. I am now working part time at a hospital doing registration. I work 2 days a week one week, and 3 days a week the next. I can pick up hours if wanted. My current job should be turning into full time soon. The problem is, my husband is NEVER home. He is constantly working. He works a full time job from 8:30am to 5pm. Then he sometimes works late on Tuesday's and Thursdays because his job sends him to another county.Then he just took on a new job yesterday where he is working weekends. We both make decent money, but where we are living now its hard to pay our bills. I feel as though he doesn't need to work all of these extra hours. I told him that I would make up the difference and let me get another job, but he says that we cannot wait. He is always working 7 days a week. Although we do not have any children, I feel deserted by him. I get all of these mixed emotions like resentful,irritated,and wanting to not be him anymore. He moved me to a city where all of his family and friends are, but moved me away from all of my friends and family. It takes me an hour just to get to where I use to live to see my family. I don't know anyone here and I just feel alone. What can I do/say to my husband to make him stop working so much?
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