Sunday, July 10, 2011
Why my boss makes fun of me in front of everyone.?
My boss thinks I'm flakey, or at least one would infer that by his comments. Every day I stress wondering when and how many times he'll rib me in front of co-workers. For example, today I turned something in, but it wasn't due until tomorrow. When I said "sorry, I guess I'm off 1 day", he loudly said, "You've been "off" for a L-O-N-G TIME!" Everyone laughed as usual. This may sound silly but I cried for 30 minutes (no one knew). Unless absolutely necessary, I no longer speak for fear that anything coming out of my mouth will be made fun of. Ironically, I get great evaluations every year, as well as a raise. He tells me how he values my work, etc.... I find myself getting very resentful of him though, and have visions of telling him off. I used to joke back with him when he'd make fun of me, but now I don't even respond. It doesn't matter though, because everyone else hears it. I keep thinking had I not joked earlier in the working relationship, none of this would be happening. Am I being too sensitive? I love my job and salary, except for him. One co-worker thinks he doesn't realize he's actually hurting my feelings. She said she bets he doesn't have a clue and to not worry about it. I guess what I'm asking is should I continue to quit acknowledging his "jokes" and bite the bullet? Granted, the comments may not seem that hateful, but it is constant.
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