Monday, July 18, 2011

Should we punish the rich with higher taxes so the lazy and incompetent wont feel so bad about themselves?

Isnt it sad how some people spend their whole lives being jealous and resentful of the rich and call it "socialism"?

Can you rid the corruption in a country?

Unfortunately, leadership is often just a reflection of its people. A corrupt population gets corrupt leadership.

What should I do playing about playing goalkeeper?

My friend insist that I am a good goalkeeper, but when I tried out for my school team I didn't make it over two guys that are way worse than me, pretty much everyone I know on the team said that, and I heard next year the coach might pick me which is a good thing. But I wanna play for my club team and recently I could've had and opportunity but when my dad e-mailed my coach he said he was going to play his son[who is really go on the field] in full time goalie. So now im stuck playing field, and I am frustrated because our goalie last season left and I know I could play goalie. My best friend seems confident that I could play in a lower level pro team when I am older and maybe MLS, and if I get lucky EPL. I am good at diving and I am pretty aggressive when it comes to one-on-ones, I also probably was the best at my tryouts, but im confused because I know im good but I just don't get to play in goal any, which makes me mad because I want to play in it and im not terrible.

Is my punctuation and my grammar correct?

Every family needs a father figure. Tobias Wolff’s memoir This Boy’s Life illustrates a boy’s (Jack) struggle to find himself and a mother in search of financial stability and a complete family. As a child, Toby’s family was divided, leaving his father and elder brother on the East Coast and, for the most part, detached from his life. Toby is resentful toward his mother for abandoning his father and moving them around, fleeing from her abusive boyfriend. The conflict mainly begins when she marries his stepfather with whom he doesn't get along with. At the same time-- he also has a close bond with her and is afraid of losing her love.

How do i get over this fear?

At tryouts my coach decided to make me a flyer. I am very small and light so she said i was perfect. I am okay at doing sponges i just need some more upper body strength, but when we started to do first floor i FREAKED out! I really want to be a flyer but for now i am terrified. Anybody ever have this problem? By the way i am going into 10th grade, and have never done cheer before, i did gymnastics for 3 years though. PLEASE HELP ME! HOW DO I GET OVER THE FEAR?

Arena Football League Open Tryouts?

you don't have to be the biggest of strongest guy out there. Arena is all about speed. the game is played at a much faster pace. if u wanna join them, alot of time on the teams home page during the off season they will have a tryout section.

Could you critique my essay? PLEASE?

Your sentence structure, tenses, and wording are a bit choppy. Take for example your sentence, "Through Jack's transformation from being a teenage scoundrel to a well-disciplined, he strives for a better life and yearns for higher education so he could get out of the hell hole he is in." The sentence is a bit long, and your grammar is slightly off. It would flow more smoothly if instead it read, "During the book, Jack transitions from being a teenage scoundrel to a well-disciplined young man. However, he is constantly striving for a better life and yearning for higher education so he can escape his unpleasant life." The use of 'hell-hole' brings down the novel and makes it less formal. The essay is too long to go through everything here, but I would work on coherency and sentence structure primarily. Perhaps get a friend to look at it and mark it, and then make sure to implement the changes they suggest. Good luck

She broke up with me and is seeing someone else but we live together and i want her back?

Tell her you love her every chance you get and try to get close to her. If she tries to have sex with you and you feel she is just trying to fufill her needs, tell her nicely even though its hard. Yelling gets you nowhere. Try to meet up with the guy and see if he really loves her. If he seems uneasy about their relationship, tell him that your still in love with her. If you try these things, she should come around but if she doesnt, Im sorry to say it, but it wasnt meant to be. Hope I helped.

Chem help...urgent...?

when H2O is added stress is being applied on the system as conc. of H2O has increased. In order to decrease the volume if H20, reduce the stress as described by the principle, reaction moves backwards and Co(H2O)6 2 starts to form, thus colour of the mixture changes!

So whats happening with getafe this season with the new owners, any BIG transfers?

i know they acquired 5 free transfers, and have sold players to make 27 million, so whats going on here, i just see a selling club, after the takeover i remember hearing there would be a 40 million summer transfer spending budget. so does that me that 27million and 40 million equals a potential 67 million in transfers? if so aren't they leaving it abit late......................they should be doing what malaga are doing

Has anyone been called 2do a western union transfer 2gain a claim receipt 2win money from Global mega million?

I received a letter the mail saying I qualified to win $2.5 million if I deposited a $499 check into my checking account and spent a certain amount at walmart, sears, and to send some to someone via western union. After that I could keep the rest. I did not do it because I thought it was a scam. But today I got a call from a guy saying that I was randomly selected and won the Global Mega Million lottery because I shop at walmart. I amused the guy and let him talk for a while, he was slightly convincing until he told me that I had to go to western union and send $299 to someone. That receipt would be my claim ticket to the 2.5 million and I would get escorted by two state marshals to a merchant banker that would cash my big check and give me the money. Has anyone else experienced this or heard of this? if so let me know.

How many Christians speak Greek and Hebrew?

I don't speak those languages, though I lean on them heavily through a concordance and lexicon. I find that sometimes, English is a cloak preventing some understanding, and alien to both Greek and Hebrew. The deeper meanings and sometime truth is hidden in our language. So it's possible to study using those languages as clarification without actually being fluent in them.

Is my punctuation and my grammar correct?

Every family needs a father figure. Tobias Wolff’s memoir This Boy’s Life illustrates a boy’s (Jack) struggle to find himself and a mother in search of financial stability and a complete family. As a child, Toby’s family was divided, leaving his father and elder brother on the East Coast and, for the most part, detached from his life. Toby is resentful toward his mother for abandoning his father and moving them around, fleeing from her abusive boyfriend. The conflict mainly begins when she marries his stepfather with whom he doesn't get along with. At the same time-- he also has a close bond with her and is afraid of losing her love.

Do you think I'll make the JV cheerleading squad?

you'll definitely make it, no worries. but why would you want to be on a team that isn't very good and won't work hard? i think you should think about allstar cheerleading. it's more serious, you work a lot harder, and the people are more committed :)

Should i end my journal?

ive had a journal since October 2009 should till now 2011 n i was thinking if i should stop, nothing big really happens to me but i like to document my life but i dont wanna hav like a million journals wen i get older so just give me ur opinion, just tell me wat would u do

Pro-Choicers: Why do you say abortion shouldn't be used as birth control?

The reason is that it's expensive and impractical and takes up valuable space, time, and resources to have that many abortions. It's also probably very unhealthy to have that many abortions. Other than the obvious practical considerations listed above (and others that I probably haven't named) I don't see anything directly wrong with it.

How hard is Freshman volleyball?

How hard is it to get into high school volleyball? i have no experience with volleyball whatsoever, but i really want to try it. Like i know how to pass but thats pretty much it. im still working on setting and serving(any tips for that?) They have volleyball camps for freshman, but do you need experience BEFORE going to the camps? What do i need to know before tryouts?

Can i play Center...?

Well you have the support of your coach, so thats an advantage. set yourself a workout schedule, alternate between lifting weights, and running/sprinting, remember dont just do one muscle group. you gotta get every where. good luck

What are some good beginner volleyball camps in Texas?

Ive never really played volleyball before and i want to tryout for the school team in august but i have no experience

Should I break up with my boyfriend?

Yes, you are doing the right thing. Break up with him tomorrow. Spend a little time on your own and think about the other guy, but dont leap into anything with him, you need to be alone for a while to think things through. You are definitely doing the right thing in breaking up with your current boyfriend.

I think my husband hates me and our kids?

I am so sad. My husband goes out of town all the time, never comes home after work and if he does we just fight because he smokes a bowl and falls asleep. He is terrible to our children, swearing at them most of the time because they touched his stuff, or ruined or broke something. He doesn't want to have sex with me because after a month of not getting any I start getting bitchy and naggy about it so he turns it around on me and then THAT becomes the reason we don't have sex. Our kids ( 8 and 3)are so so naughty, screaming, swearing, fighting with one another all of the time because THAT is what they see us do. He has no interest in BEING a family, DOING and LOVING and CARING instead of just saying " i love you " (which lemme tell you, with no actions to back it up, they, LITERALLY, are only words). I want him home, I love him but when he is here I am so resentful, or the kids are so naughty, or SOMETHING happens and we end up fighting. On the phone, in person.. it doesn't matter I've caught him with naked photos online years ago, a couple of times and more recently he had started smoking cigarettes and lied to me about it for almost a year. Why lie to me ?He says it is because I freak out... I freak out sometimes ( THo am studying Buddhism so I have been much more tempered) because it just doesn't make sense to make decisions based upon ONE persons needs or wants really when there are four of us. To him it's him, only him. He said he never wants to change, he doesn't want to get old and grow up (he will be 29 in August) and he still likes what he likes. I feel like there really is NO place for us in his life anymore. I don't want to leave him but I don't want to stay. I am lost, confused and honestly? SUFFERING... But so are our children. I try to tell him they are REAL people, we are raising people that are growing up to be children, teens, young adults, adults, parents etc etc. I dunno. I better stop now. **PLEASE DONT INDICATE HE IS SEEING SOMEONE ELSE, I HAVE CONSIDERED THAT POSSIBILITY, I AM LOOKING MORE FOR A SOLUTION TO THE PROBLEM AND NOT THE CAUSE OF THE PROBLEMS

HELP??? 10 PTS BEST ANSWER???? Is he just trying to make me jealous?

I broke up with this guy for genuine reasons b/c of lots of work that was bogging me down, and he didn't mind. But then he saw me hanging around another guy and thought I was flirting. He was so mad. He then started dating another girl but would sometimes stare at me while talking to her. And if he had just finished talking to her but then saw me he would try to extend the conversation with her so I could see them. But if he's alone he avoids eye contact with me or acts resentful. And once when he saw me talking to another guy, he had this angry look.

What else should i get my BFF for her birthday?

When you dont know what to give someone for their birthday give them money. In that case they can spend it on wat they wany and they wont be upset with wat u got them

What do you need for smoky hill hs cheer tryouts to guarantee you will accepted?

I really want to be a cheerleader...im starting high school in 63 days. i know how to do a right leg split and a cartwheel pretty well. I have a very flexible back but i could lose a little weight(which I am working on...) If anyone could answer this i would be extremely thankful...

I'm skeptical on faith but i'd love some feedback to some questions?

Lets take the religious stamp off of God and get to know Him as He truly is. Self is a delusion that mixes and dilutes Truth (reality) with illusion. God gave us this mixture so that we can have a taste of Truth (Reality) and decide if we want more or if illusion and it nature suites our desires more. Death is simply the result of the nature of illusion which is to pass away like a mirage. God is Love because He is the selfless image-less Spirit of Life our always in the Present Origin and Loving Father who Jesus was relating to by lay down his time oriented self identity and now is introducing us to Him also and ask us to do the same. God is Eternal which simply means that He is above the relativity which gives us our self identities and fragments and therefore causes our conflicts. Those who enter into the Un-Relative One by humbling the time created and Illusion rooted self identity prove they are son of God and that the Spiritual genes have precedence over the physical ones and therefore they become peacemakers. Illusion is that which appears, seems real, but then disappears while Truth (reality) is that which is and has been always. Time is just a word we use to describe illusion and its nature. God allows us to enter further into Truth which is Eternal Oneness or to walk in illusion which gives us the nature of Illusion which is to pass away. One day the Eternal fire of the Truth is going to destroy all illusion along with those who decided to walk in it because it suited their lust and desire and they will cease to exist even in memory after judgment. The bible is a example over time of those who were dealing with the Truth and also those who were not in different degrees. Now those who were seeking the Truth (reality) were actually leaving the nature of relativity behind more and more.

Should a woman who slaps the face of a man be locked in jail?

Graciela Camano gave a blow of Kunkel (Argentina). Millions of people saw the attack on TV and in Youtube.

Why do such a large pattern of married women do this?

because men change who they are and they can't keep us happy anymore. to women, it's all about the lust. we want to still have a crush on our man after a couple of years, if you can't keep us that happy, then we'll find it somewhere else.

Should I try out for JV Field Hockey as a Freshman?

Ok, so i'm going to be a freshman in the fall and i want to play field hockey. there are no tryout for the freshman field hockey team at my school, and i have heard that most of the girls on the team have never played before and the coach isn't that great and and it isn't till JV when they actually learn how to play the game. By the end of the summer I will have completed about 5 field hockey camps/clinic, 1 private lesson, and 1 recreation team. I'm worried that if i'm on the freshman team i'm going to be somewhat "held back", but am i crazy to consider trying out for JV. I'm not like super amazing or anything, but the girls on the freshman team have barely played before. Also, I'm going to know like 10 people on the freshman team and none on the JV team, but I'd rather be one of the worst people on the JV team than the best on the freshman team.

How to do good in cheer tryouts?

I want to tryout for my highschool cheer team. I can't sing up this yr so I want to try out @ the end of the school year. But I don't know how to get ready so any tips or tricks I wanna be a flyer and I kinda good at tumbling. So plz help thx

Does he like me if he constantly calls me his best friend?

We have a million inside jokes, and he comes over to my house a lot (We're 17, don't drive, and both have watchful, careful parents.) He is slowly getting over his ex girlfriend, whom he was with for 4 months and feel way too deeply in love with. It has been 3 months since their break up, nearly 4. He doesn't hang out with anyone at all, but we have become very close after they broke up. I've confessed to him that I liked him a few weeks after their break up, which was stupid cause he was obviously still in love with her. And I never brought it up again. But now he seems to like someone else, and it's killing me, because I am aware of the fact it isn't me, because he's always calling me his best friend. Which is strange, considering the fact that when we hang out in my house we fool around on the bed (Not really) meaning we tickle each other a lot and have poke wars and we're quite comfortable with each other. He's quite flirty in these scenarios. And he pokes my face. And has been commenting and liking a lot of my statuses and comments on facebook. We are also in a two-man band together, and sometimes when we are supposed to record stuff we end up playing around in my room watching videos and songs and tickling each other instead. I don't know what to think.

How to leave and still feel okay?

I know in the state that I live in, Louisiana, if you are not married the father has to sign the birth certificate. I can't really tell you what to do in the mean time, but I would suggest getting you own place as soon as possible. If he is sleeping around with a lot of women, then the chances of him catching something and passing it to you are high. If you give birth and you have caught some kind of STD or STI than that could be passed to the baby during pregnancy or child birth. The only way I can think for you to tell him is just sit him down one day calmly explain your self, ask him to listen to all of your concerns before interrupting you, and when your done allow him to explain his thoughts to you but do not accept anything other than what is best for you and your child!

Does smoking weed affect athletic abilities?

I used to smoke weed around once a week and now i dont..but i play soccer everyday and before i smoked i wouldnt get tired as quicly as i do now..I have highschool tryouts in a couple of months i just want to know if it waz the weed or my age (17) that makes me tired very quickly?

The volleyball coach will not let me play any other positions!!?

So I'm going into high school and I've already been playing club vball for 3 years. We haven had tryouts for HS volleyball yet but we have had open gyms and the coaches are there watching. At the first one we had a setting drill and this one girl goes "ugh I hate setting" so I was just like "oh I think it's fun" and the coach heard me. I think she mistook that for me being a setter, which I'm NOT. I'm really good at attacking. I love attacking so much (especially outside) and I'm really really good at it. But when we did the attcking drills the coach told me to set for them. I didn't even get to attack. I'm not the best at setting either so she thinks I suck now. And I don't want to sound like I'm talking back to her or anything so I just do what she says. But now at every single open gym she makes me set for all the attacking drills. I'm worried that at tryouts she might make me set for the drills and she wot see my full potential. What do I do to let her know I'm in no way a setter an that I'm a hitter? Thanks.

Am i too fat to be a cheerleader?

I am 5 1" and 135 pounds, i do not look that big trust me. I know i am overweight, tryouts are in a month and i want this more than anything! I am already practicing. I will be in 7th grade btw so they dont require like flips and stuff thx

Sunday, July 17, 2011

How to deal with resentful guys?

You do not have to accept it or ignore it. We are all a mixed bag, good and bad. When they talk bad about you, do not even acknowledge it. Look for the good in them. If they really give you a hard time and are mean and bitter, then it is time to cut them from your life.

I have a question about soccer and my future?

Okay so I am 14 years of age and I LOVE soccer . Im not like pro or anything but im a pretty good defence . Ive gone to club tryouts and played with other teams and stuff like that . I practice every 2 days . Anyway i plan on getting in a soccer league by where i live . And then once school starts i plan to play for the highschool soccer team . But then once i graduate from Highschool i want to go to a 4 year university and play there and hopefully become pro . I know how much it would mean to my family to pass on the tradition and me being the youngest one i still have a oppurtunity to become pro . Everybody in my family plays . My dad , brother, uncle, cousins, they all play . And they are training me to get better so i can become pro . Ok im sorry ive gotten of topic . Soooo i wanted to know if its possible for me to go to UCLA and play soccer there and eventually become pro . when i graduate from highschool . Because i dont really plan on becoming a doctor or a engineer . No . i want to become pro in soccer and make it to a proffesional team . Please help me on what i can do to reaching my goal

Drill Team? Should I Tryout Or Just Give UP... PLEASE HELP :D?

I was in Drill Team....so much fun. You should do it. When you try out make sure you have face emotions and look sharp. Have fun and good luck!

How to stop liking this girl?

I'm in high school and there's this girl I've had strong feelings for for the majority of it. She'd been dating the same guy since middle school and although they've been on and off many times I didn't pursue her because I didn't think it was the right thing to do. It's pretty common knowledge among even my not-so-close friends that I have feelings for this girl, but I'm sort of the jokester of the group so people don't often take me and I guess my feelings for this girl that seriously. A few months ago she broke up with her boyfriend for good and one of my closest friends (who i guess didn't know about my feelings for this girl) pursued her immediately. I still didn't go for it because I didn't want to take advantage of her, even if it was inadvertent. I thought their fling would pass but it's been more than six months now and they're essentially in a relationship, although they won't call it that. I used to dote over this girl all the time and now she expects me to act the same way, but I only feel sad or resentful when I'm around her and her (basically) boyfriend so I've been trying to avoid them in the most gentle way possible. Over more complications they both found out I have feelings for this girl so I'm constantly feeling like they're censoring their relationship for my sake and just patronizing me in general, which just hurts even more. I just want to get out of this weird love triangle I'm in because it's gotten to the point where I can't help but be a jerk to them because I'm so resentful that they care so little about my feelings. Please if anybody can just explain how I can get over her or maybe point out flaws in my actions and logic that I can change in the future. I really don't want to ever be in this situation again.

Having trouble adjusting to new living situation?

Although I've never been in your situation, i sympathize deeply with you for your miscarriage and this difficulty you seem to be in. I would advise that you stress to him just how important your career is and to try to make him see things from your point of view. once he can empathize with your situation you can decide together, which path your going to take. If you really love each other, which i have no doubt you do, then both of you will be willing to compromise in order to make each other happy. for example you could move out of the city but still close enough for you to get to work without having to travel too far, and as for his lack of help around the house, why not try and sort out a suitable time for him to play on the PS3 such as when your busy with work at home, or relaxing in the bath. so that his time doesn't intrude into time you should be spending together. Hope this helps in some way :) x

Soccer Camps/CLASSES?

Find a soccer summer camp, theres so many and i bet you have some near your area. If that doesnt work then ask somebody you know to teach how to play better. Or just go online and learn training and skills and just practice everyday. You will get better!

Trying to cope with something that happened thirty years ago (and bring my family closer together again)?

In 1981, my eight-year-old brother Andrew was kidnapped by a family acquaintance and held hostage for three weeks. During this time, he was routinely beaten and sexually abused by his captor. He was also burned with boiling water and forced to listen while his captor made crank calls to our family pretending to be the police, telling us that Andrew had been found. He was rescued after three weeks. It had taken that long to track him down because his captor had them moving around all the time. It's strange to me how a period of time as short as three weeks could destroy so many lives, and leave so many still broken after thirty years. Andrew's body recovered from the trauma, but his mind never healed. The Andrew that came back to us was not the Andrew we had previously known. Before the trauma, Andrew was very social and outgoing. We were only two years apart and always very close. I never had any other brothers or sisters. He was a sweet little boy with a good sense of humor, and, being an older sister, I teased him constantly. Not meanly, but in a playful way. He is the most ticklish person to ever walk planet Earth, and as a little kid he loved it when I tickled his feet. We wrestled and play-fought and just enjoyed being with each other. When he came back, everything changed. Andrew had always been close to me and my parents also, but after he came back he acted like he couldn't even stand the sight of us. I could never understand that. I thought he should be happy to be back with us, people who loved him. He told me when he was older that I was a stranger to him and that there was a gulf separating him from everyone else. He was resentful that other people hadn't been where he had been. When he first came back and started beng like that, I tried so hard to bring him back. I tickle-attacked him like I used to and even though he squirmed and laughed just the same, he didn't enjoy it at all. He wouldn't wrestle either, and didn't seem to want to be around me at all. He did well in school and never had issues with drugs and alcohol, he's been successful in life and has a wife and kids, but for the past thirty years you can tell that something in him is just gone. Something inside him died all those years ago and, despite this, I still hope so hard that I can bring him back. I still see him and our children play together, but that confidence is gone. He underwent counseling as a child and teen but it didn't help him and he doesn't see anyone anymore. I encourage him to see someone about his depression and the pain he still feels but he says it wouldn't make any difference. I'm sorry this post is so long but I just don't know what to do to help him. He's physically healthy and financially stable, but I want to be close to him again and my parents want the same. Is there anything I can do to bring him back, to make us all just a little closer?

I need some help with this decision its long but an easy read I promise?

They have a whole separate category for questions like this. It's called Singles & Dating. I know, it sounds too good to be true, but you should check it out!

I'm 13 shaved my pubic hair today. I'm scared now! Help please, I'm such an idiot!?

NO big deal, just put lotion on it, and keep it clean, as in fresh cotton underwear until the hair grows back.

If you won the lottery?????

Like �134 million quid on a rollover. Would you want this huge sum of money and how would you really spend it?

What can i do to be more noticable during lacrosse tryouts?

I play defense in lacrosse, and i didn't make the team that i was planning on making. I asked my coach for another team that i play for what he thought. He said that i run and defend real well, but my passing could use more work. He also said that he thinks the coach running the tryout didnt see me or something like that. So what should i do to be more noticable during lacrosse tryouts?

Boyfriend barely helps with our 6 month old baby? ?

No marriage. This guy will be gone in a month. 19 years old, no diploma, no skills, and an illegitimate baby. Sad story but you have no one else to blame but yourself.

Just had baby. I'm a stay at home mom and dad wants me to work too?

Ultimatums should be your last resort. Try to make him understand, that a baby to the age of five or six is best nurtured by it's mother. Studies have shown that children raised by their mothers are more adjusted than those that a dumped at day cares. Not only that, how much does a day care cost in your area? I would suggest that both of you have a comm discussion about the pros's and cons about child care. And maybe offer to have both your names on the mortgage! Good luck.

Do I really have a hobby or is it fake?!!? :((?

I have been doing gymnastics for 1 year and im in level 4 I skipped 3! And in a week is tryouts for level 5! So my gym is a YMCA a fun gym ( it's AAU ) over summer I an visiting a gym that is amazing and works out for 4 hours at least every day. When I'm there I feel week and not as good i mean they stretch for at least 4 hours a day every day !!! I want to be a Olympic gymnast should I give up?

Will my dog learn to sleep by himself?

I have an 8 yr old weiner dog who has slept with me in my bed nearly every night. I recemtly got a new bed/sheets and my dog leaves spots of dirt or something on my speciasl material sheets. So I bought a doggy bed and blanket and they're on the ground next to my bed. Will my dog stop whining to get on the bed? And will he be resentful hahh?

I'm jealous of my daughter and husband's relationship. What should I do?

Sounds to me like you husband has a problem whether you believe it or not. All of that seems like something a pedophile would do. I hope that isn't the case though. Family counseling might be the best way to handle this. And you are her mother, if you want her to sleep in her room tell her to.

I feel nostalgic and sad?

I can COMPLETELY relate to you, in age and in feelings. I feel miserable and sad all the time, and it's always on my mind. I've considered everything you have, and I long for my childhood everyday. I just try to distract myself by doing everyday activities, even though I'm sick of being normal and fitting in. It's like I have to fit in at my school or else you're an outcast. I distract myself with things that I like to do, like playing the piano and drawing. Drawing gets a lot of these mixed emotions out. Draw what you're feeling, and find something to do that doesn't make you feel like you're fitting in. Also, what I try to do, act like a kid sometimes! I get chalk and draw on the sidewalk, walk to the park, go get ice cream, etc. I try to stay young and act young, even though people say I'm very mature for my age. I'm not saying that teens like you and me are just going through mood swings and hormones, I'm saying that us few teens are going through something that not a lot of people understand and have never felt. Believe me, I'm going through the exact same thing! Pray, and act like a kid! Don't think that you have to fit in, be yourself! Express the child inside you trying to come out! We can do it! And I'm not saying that these feelings will go away immediately, give it time. Trust me, I deal with this too. Best of wishes!!

Should I have "humility" and go to this party of a "fake friend" who I don't like?

I personally detest this form of humility. Parties are supposed to be a celebration where people have fun, not where they go to be seen as fake friends to build up some sort of image. The only reason you should go to this party is if you get something out of it for yourself.

Should I make gaming computers?

I thought about making gaming computers for people that dont know how or dosent want to mess with building there own. I dont know if theres like a million people already doing this but i want to sell them on ebay. Can someone give me advice in getting into this type of business?

So because i'm young i don't know how to parent?

Usually it's the people who know the least that have the most to say. You sound like your doing a great job with your son, just ignore people like that. She's just an unhappy person in general probably.

HELP???? 10 PTS BEST ANSWER???Why is he acting like this?

My ex was mad at me for something so he dumped me. Then he started seeing someone else. For a while it was awkward between us. But then I said hi to him and he acted nice too so it seemed things were less awkward between us. But then the next day he seemed to avoid eye contact and almost give me resentful looks. He does this most of the time, but other days he stares hard at me and tries to get my attention. Makes no sense.

Coworker saw me naked at her friend's party?

The best thing to do is just tell her all is cool you guys needs to relax what wrong with being naked in this hot weather.

Softball teams in Spartanburg, South Carolina?

i wanna play softball and i cant any teams to play with and i dont know when there tryouts would be for fall. I live in Spartanburg, South Carolina and I would like teams in my area to play with. Can anybody help?

Saturday, July 16, 2011

What to know for field hockey? never played before?

I'm going to do field hockey this freshmen year of high school and I'm super excited! I've never played field hockey before and I have played soccer, but just for gym and leisure. I wanted to know what I should do to prepare for tryouts so I can make the team. The coach said that usually everyone makes the team but I want to be prepared and ready. What are some basic skills, moves, etc that I should work on? How should I practice? thanks!

What is this word?? Please read description! :)?

Okay, so you know that adverb (or adjective or whatever) that you can use to describe how a person does something, but still doesn't want to?? It starts with an R and sounds sort of like "resentful", "relentless" or something along those lines. You know, instead of saying something like "even though she didn't want to" you can use that word?? Ugh, I hate it when I forgot words...thanks in advance :)

Here is a complex question for all you religious people if your up for it?

Is really sane to believe in a deity the whole idea of it is insane and you should ask yourself some serious questions? for one The faith argument is to broad to believe above all else is sorta the easy way out it's nonsense right? To actually believe anything written in a book as the words of god is a little weird right I mean you can't believe most of the stuff in the news as 100% truthful but a book that's thousands of years old passed through many different hands ha ever heard of rumors? Another good question is for people who think the earth is 6000 Years old I mean look at the dinosaurs were they around with people? Have you ever heard of carbon dating the bones are millions of years old it's not a joke! Finally the evidence science has trillions of evidence where religion has zero is it that strong and elusive I mean is science just child's play to god is the universe a small bubble in his hands it's fun to think that but the question is why would you actually believe it?

HELP??? 10 PTS BEST ANSWER???? Is he just trying to make me jealous?

I broke up with this guy for genuine reasons, and he didn't mind. But then he saw me hanging around another guy and thought I was flirting. He was so mad. He then started dating another girl but would sometimes stare at me while talking to her. But if he's alone he avoids eye contact with me or acts resentful. And once when he saw me talking to another guy, he had this angry look.

Anyone who is a cheerleader or knows about cheerleading:?

i wanna join cheerleading but idk how to do all those flips and splitz and tricks... im going to 9th gr so if i ever wanna join a cheerleading what talents do i need to have? if there is a cheerleading tryout how should i perform bcuz i am totally clueless in this category? and yes imma girl :)

At what point in human evolution did God inject our souls ?

I think it was when we started walking upright, about 4.5 million years ago. Do other primates have souls ?

Professional athletes extremely overpaid?

These men and women make millions of dollars to shoot, throw, kick, and hit a ball. Frankly, I think that's absolutely ridiculous. Then some of these guys think they're worth a couple more million dollars and refuse to practice or play in games *cough* Darrelle Revis *cough*. I also think that the amount of money they make goes to their heads and they act like the world revolves around them. Latrell Sprewell, a former NBA player, said that a three-year $21-million contract wouldn't be enough to feed his children. What do you think?

I am feeling resentful towards my parents because of my childhood?

You can be resentful, but will it change anything? Instead, you have to focus on the future and your health. Perhaps it would be best if you talked to your parents about how you feel, or even write them a letter explaining it to them. Use that resent and put it toward changing your life :)

My husband and I are having a hard time getting along after the birth of our beautiful child?

We were not married when we got pregnant. We later after much thought and consideration decided to get married in a civil ceremony. Since the birth we have been at each others throats. I am exclusively breastfeeding so cant really go out for long periods of time. We have gone out on a few dates for a couple hours and I have pumped a bottle or two. Our daughter is two months old and my husband just got back from a memorial day weekend in Vegas. Originally I thought I would be OK wit him going--it was his good friend's bachelor party and we are going to the wedding in July. However, when he got back I was very resentful. We are struggling financially and was upset that he spent money on booze and gambling when it could have gone towards other things. Also, not to mention I am at home with the baby and cannot go out with my friends like I used to anymore. I wouldn't change being committed to breastfeeding for anything and can see why a lot of women give up. I also feel like he came back from Vegas empty handed only with nothing but a lost voice. This is just the beginning of what we fight about. We still have separate bank accounts and I feel like I am living with a roommate/single mother sometimes. I want this to work not only for our precious little girl but for us--we Truly love each other and divorce is not an option. Should we seek counseling. We are both 27/28 years old.

Help! Dad's a late stage alcoholic...?

Have you looked into options for rehab? That's really the only thing I can think of that might help. They'll get him off the alcohol and into therapy, and give him more of a chance of stopping drinking. If he has health insurance that might pay for part of it, or if he's low income you might be able to get it covered under Medicaid.

Are there any more tryouts this summer for Junior hockey teams?

i was injured for most of my season and just turned 17 and im trying to find a junior team to play on and i was just wondering if anyone could help me out because i cant seem to find much... But im just trying to see if there are any junior hockey teams that still have tryouts or are still looking for players in illinois, florida or maryland. Preferably illinois because thats the state im currently living in.

I'm about to set straight certain vicious lies about me. What do you think?

If he is wacky, as you say, your actions will only cause him to continue his slander. SUE THE BUM!!

De Gea Hungry for Champions League Victory, but Will Miss His Old Club?

he will relish playing for us as he is young and has already won a few things being number 1 at the biggest team in the world will give him a major boast he will in years to come be one of the greatest goalkeepers in our history.

Feedback on my paragraph?

Every family needs a father figure. Tobias Wolff’s memoir "This Boy’s Life" illustrates a boy’s (Toby) struggle to find himself and a mother in search of financial stability and a complete family. As a child, Toby’s family was divided, leaving his father and elder brother on the East Coast and, for the most part, uninvolved in his life. Toby is resentful toward his mother for leaving his father and moving them around, fleeing her abusive boyfriend. The conflict mainly begins when she marries his stepfather with whom he doesn't get along. At the same time, he also has a close bond with her and is afraid of losing her love.

Im 15 and i want to play hockey?

Im 15, i know how to skate and everything i grew up with the sport, and ive been told im not bad for a kid who hasnt played before, i want to tryout but im really nervous i feel like i have the ability, but also dont want to make a fool of myself, also i really want to be goalie ive messed around with the pads before and i absolutly loved it, how hard would it be to do something like this?? Should i just not even bother?

Will you write a poem for me?

I write poems about things that happen to me.. but i have writers block lol. i just want a poem about how im mad and sad and resentful and hurt that my boyfriend hunter cheated on me... weve been dating over a year. i thought he loved me but he was cheating on me all year. and im finally done with him.. ive cried my eyes out and not ate a thing for two days :(

Need some tryout advice please?

Ok so next year I'm trying out for softball I have been playing for 5 years and I really really want to make varsity. For softball it is possible to make varsity at my school as a freshman. I just needed some advice from those of you who have tried out for high school softball what to know how to do and what to make sure the coaches know about you. Also how to make sure the coaches notice you out of all the others at tryouts. Thanks for the advice!

What to do about my life/Mother?

WOW :o feel better :) think positive & remember we have only one life to live. LIVE IT TO THE FULLEST !

Playing U16 China Basketball?

Both of my parents are American citizens (Chinese Immigrants) and I was born the US. I was wondering if I would be allowed to join China's U16 basketball team next summer even though I'm an American citizen. And does anyone know how the process works? (Are there tryouts or something and when?)

Is discriminating against catholics the last socially acceptable prejudice?

People blame us for hitler (he was Protestant he even wrote his own version of the bible) we get gunned down while leaving mass by radical atheists (google "red shirts") the media HATES US!!!!!!!!Just because we have beliefs that they disagree with we are fascists brain washers the root of all evil and ect.People forget things or have selective memory like oh 2 million catholics were killed in norway by the Nazis for no reason besides that they were catholic (which their motives have been proven) we've been the target of hate crimes by the KKK arian brotherhood for not being part of their "White protestant America".And when i tell people im catholic they assume that i bomb abortion clinics or hate gay people.But the most disturbing thing as that all of the discrimination and prejudice is socially acceptable!Like harry knox an adviser to Obama saying that "The pope is harming people in the name of jesus" the church wrote an open letter demanding he be fired due to his bigotry and the president did nothing!If he said something about muslims he would have been fired!So do you think that its the last socially acceptable prejudice in america?

How to get Ipod Nano music and photos onto new laptop?

I know this has been asked a million times and I did google some of the programs suggested to do this. The one I bought (with the best reviews) will not load without errors and it will recognize my music but not my photos (program is Cucusoft). Lets just say Cucusoft while rated high for customer service has not been able to solve and refuses to refund. So then I tried Copy Toy as suggested by a friend (it worked for them) and it too does not recognize my photos. Their customer service is lacking as well. I have paid for both of these programs and I still can not load my music and photos. Any suggestions would be appreciated. (both the Ipod Nano and laptop are brand new)

Girls,in your opinion do you think there are more available single men wanting to date/marry or single woman?

I have a question, I am soon to be 30 year old male. I have a good career,stable,been told I am attractive and looking to date and eventually get married. On some articles I have read on singles and dating they state that there is a "man shortage.I have heard many unmarried woman in their 20,30', or even 40's lament about the lack of available men due to many men being either not wanting to marry(lifelong bachelor) gay irresponsible.On the otherhand I have read articles about a "woman shortage;.Given that there are 105 male births to 100 female(although due to mortality rates more mails die in childbirth,die young, go to jail the population evens out.In China due to aborting female babies there are like 50 million more males that females in China. But that is China I am specifically talking about the USA Canada Europe, the West,etc. Some websites like match.com plenty of fish state more men sign up for dating services.Yet I have heard from various sources that there is a shortage of available men.( I am primarily referring to the Caucasian community in this question-although I respect al other ethnic groups.So ladies who are single and have insight what do you think?Is there a male or female shortage?

Coworker saw me naked at her friend's party?

The best thing to do is just tell her all is cool you guys needs to relax what wrong with being naked in this hot weather.

How to build up my stamina for running 3 miles with ease?

I'm trying out for college baseball and the tryouts consist of running at least two miles and then followed by sprints after. Right now my mile and 1/2 time is 10:20 and i want to get alot better. Basically i want to know how should i run and when? Two miles in the morning and two at night?

Why do guys dislike lesbians?

I think its a difference in cultural expectations. In general, men are more scrutinized by other men for their homosexuality than women are for theirs. Our culture seems to celebrate lesbianism as empowering and good, while homosexuality in men is seen as ugly and vile. Of course, this is no excuse for animosity, but like other things, the internet brings out what can't be said in public.

I really want to play Football, but everyone keeps bringing me down... Help...?

Ok I really want to play Football. I'm going to be a Freshman in High School and I signed up for Football. Everyone is looking down on me saying that I'll get injured and everyone will break me. I understand that, It's part of the game, i'm willing to take hits for the team...I love the game and i'm serious about this, but like i said, everyone is looking down on me saying i can't do it without even knowing what i'm capable of.... I want to be running-back. I was always a fast runner. I ran the mile at my school in 6:14. I am 5 11' and 145 pounds. On Monday we will be starting 4 weeks of weight training at the school. I'm going to work my butt of before tryouts in August. Look,i understand that i don't have a lot of muscle on me and i was always considered a loser at school, but i have fast legs and a whole lot of confidence! I'm willing to work my hardest and not back down! Should i try out? Is everyone else right...? Please help.... I'm sorry for all the writing but this is important to me.

What are the positions in track?

Ok so there are track and field events. Field events consist of high jump, long jump, triple jump, pole vault, discus, and shotput. High jump is when you run and try to jump over a bar without knocking it off. Long jump is trying to jump as far as you can by sprinting and leaping into a sand pit. Triple jump is very similar but instead of running to the pit you do a hop skip type approach. Pole vault is flinging yourself over a bar using a pole. Discus is throwing a weighted frisbee basically and shotput is throwing a weighted ball. Track events are the running events and if you are fast this is probably what you would do. The distances that you can run range from 100m to 3200m (2 miles).

Friday, July 15, 2011

Trying to repair some damage thirty years after the fact (sorry about the length)?

In 1981, my eight-year-old brother Andrew was kidnapped by a family acquaintance and held hostage for three weeks. During this time, he was routinely beaten and sexually abused by his captor. He was also burned with boiling water and forced to listen while his captor made crank calls to our family pretending to be the police, telling us that Andrew had been found. He was rescued after three weeks. It had taken that long to track him down because his captor had them moving around all the time. It's strange to me how a period of time as short as three weeks could destroy so many lives, and leave so many still broken after thirty years. Andrew's body recovered from the trauma, but his mind never healed. The Andrew that came back to us was not the Andrew we had previously known. Before the trauma, Andrew was very social and outgoing. We were only two years apart and always very close. I never had any other brothers or sisters. He was a sweet little boy with a good sense of humor, and, being an older sister, I teased him constantly. Not meanly, but in a playful way. He is the most ticklish person to ever walk planet Earth, and as a little kid he loved it when I tickled his feet. We wrestled and play-fought and just enjoyed being with each other. When he came back, everything changed. Andrew had always been close to me and my parents also, but after he came back he acted like he couldn't even stand the sight of us. I could never understand that. I thought he should be happy to be back with us, people who loved him. He told me when he was older that I was a stranger to him and that there was a gulf separating him from everyone else. He was resentful that other people hadn't been where he had been. When he first came back and started beng like that, I tried so hard to bring him back. I tickle-attacked him like I used to and even though he squirmed and laughed just the same, he didn't enjoy it at all. He wouldn't wrestle either, and didn't seem to want to be around me at all. He did well in school and never had issues with drugs and alcohol, he's been successful in life and has a wife and kids, but for the past thirty years you can tell that something in him is just gone. Something inside him died all those years ago and, despite this, I still hope so hard that I can bring him back. I still see him and our children play together, but that confidence is gone. He underwent counseling as a child and teen but it didn't help him and he doesn't see anyone anymore. I encourage him to see someone about his depression and the pain he still feels but he says it wouldn't make any difference. I'm sorry this post is so long but I just don't know what to do to help him. He's physically healthy and financially stable, but I want to be close to him again and my parents want the same. Is there anything I can do to bring him back, to make us all just a little closer?

How did illegal Immigration from Europe help build the U.S?

From what I've been told Millions of Illegal Europeans cross the Atlantic ocean illegally and settle in North America. Is there a way to send these Anchor Babies back to Europe?

What is she thinking?

Wow, this is looong. I'm thinking that she's thinking that she's thinking of ending the relationship.

My boyfriend is cheating on me and i'm pregnant-help?

Your looks have nothing on him cheating and unless u caught him red handed, you are only specualting, and with your attitude, he may be reacting back. U both need to sit down, and CALMLY discuss the future of the child..not u or him, but the child. You feel down now cause u are getting big with child, but he had sex with you cause it was free and easy...and now u are pregnant and you really dont even know the babies daddy...Having sex to prove "love" to a BF is the dumbest thing you can do..he will love u alot more if he respects you too.Next time, keep those legs closed, and have more respect for your self. Not haveing a BF is not the end of the world.

What do you think is mentally wrong with this guy?

He's bad news. Move to a different state and cut all ties with him. Then later when he is caught with his shoe cam at the local Costco filming up women's skirts, you can thank me.

Do I sound like a Democrat or a Republican?

With out a doubt you are a Republican whether you admit it or pretend to be something else. For some reason a lot of Republicans pretend to be independants.

Travel Softball Tryouts?

How exactly do the tryouts go? are there A LOT of people? what kind of things do u do. (as far as hitting, catching fly balls, etc.) im 14 if that helps.

Junior A hockey league?

ok im 16 i played midget aaa last year and missed the qmjhl draft so i wanna play junior A so is junior A an open tryout or do i have to get invited to try out

How are platinum recording measured sales or distribution?

I once heard that if a record/single goes platinum that doesnt mean a million records were sold rather a million records were shipped out for sale.Is this true?In other words is platinum based on distribution or actual record sales which I know today many people don't buy records anymore.

When will my male employees learn to FULLY accept my authority?

Your statement after reading a couple times, irks me Because after the 2nd time I read it determining "why the bell rang" Accept and Respect my AUTHORITY you sound you "Reverend" Al Sharpton... respect is EARNED... NOT automatically given Given.. and authority is accepted when one earns respect... I have a problem with people who constantly Make statements like this in a public format..."when will my male employees learn to fully accept MY authority.. IF you have to post this in Yahoo answers I would say you obviously should not have any authority at all.. I bet your employers would love to read about the "manager" they hired who don't get no respect boo hoo hoo

Why do tax brackets work this way why is it that a Rich/Wealthy person the first few 000 dollars may be taxed?

The point is that you don't end up suddenly penalized with thousands of dollars in taxes for going over a certain critical earning level.

Which song should I do for dance solo?

Back to Black would be a great choice. Make sure you dance to the attitude of the song. It has kind of a sultry vintage feeling. This combined with some good technique would be a great performance. Good luck! If you need any help with choreography feel free to e-mail me. :)

Mexicans are taking over!!!!!! What do White Americans feel about this?

Mexicans are having babies 3x faster then Whites. In the Year 2004 there were only 39 Million Hispanics in America, in the year 2006 there were 44 Million Hispanics in America, in the year 2010 there were 51 Million Hispanics not including illegals!!! The Census predicts that by the year 2042 White Americans are going to be the minority and by the year 2050 Hispanics will be the majority!!! Also Blacks will increase by half and so will Asians, and the majority of Americans who will be 65 and older will be white in that time!!!! What do you guys think of this????

Is my man having a mid life crisis?

The past few weeks I noticed my live-in boyfriend of 8 years is suddenly very interested in his appearance, exercising everyday, and eating Special K for breakfast. He loves for me to go stay at my parents house, and always makes the excuse that he can't come with me. He used to love staying out at my parents place, because they live in a beautiful home, next to a lake. Lots of stuff to do here. Lately, he's been wanting to be by himself. He told me today that he is very proud of me that I am starting to be more independent of him, and that he thinks I am doing great by staying out here, and not calling him all the time. WTF? He is always on Facebook too. I honestly do not think he is cheating on me though. BUT, I do think he tries to act like he is single. I have a feeling he is on some singles websites too. What should I do without sounding like I am being accusatory? Should I go behind his back and check his computer? He also defriended me on Facebook, but he says he doesn't know why I am not on his friends list anymore. I have asked him millions of times already if he would like to be single. He says no way. My mother thinks he wants his cake & eat it too. He needs me for certain things, like staying in the apartment, because it is in my name. His credit is bad, so the apartment is in my name, and all the bills too, like the electricity. Do you think he stays with me because of this? There is absolutely no passion in our relationship anymore. He doesn't kiss me, or snuggle with me anymore. He sleeps out in the living room on the futon every night, while I stay in the bedroom, reading books. We used to be hot for each other, but he is a cold fish now. I feel very depressed about it all. Should I just leave him? We live in a very fun city, but he is 47, and I am 37. He is always going swimming by himself at night at the local swimming hole too, which bothers me. He does invite me, but sometimes I don't feel like jumping into 67 degree water at 9 o'clock at night. He is acting like Mr. Activity, while he treats me like the old lady that is supposed to stay at home and not have any fun.

I'm 14 and wanna start cheer, HELP!!?

Cheerleading isnt as easy as it looks. If its anything like my competition team its tough work. But if youre tall youd be a back for stunting which is easy. It would help if youre flexible and loud. You have to be strong because you have to throw girls in the air and catch them. Im sure youll be fine its not that hard just a lot of commitment. Practice some toe touches and herkies (cheer jumps) so when you go to tryouts you atleast know somethings. Dont be discouraged if you see some girls that are amazing, trust me you'll improve. I started cheerleading in 6th grade for a competition team called X-Force. I could barely do a flipflop, toetouch, pike, hurdler, or anything. Now its 3 years later im in freshman, i quit my competition team and tried out for my school team. I have my roundoff flipflop, standing flipflop, backtuck, and full all down and i made varsity. Try it out, i did volleyball too then my friend made me try out for cheer i love it

Do Basketball coaches care if you wear goggles for basketball?

My basketball tryouts for freshmen high school is about to come up in a couple of months and i just ordered goggles because i cant wear glasses during basketball. I am good and i will play better because i will be wearing goggles and when i wear glasses i am afraid they are going to break so i switched to goggles. Contacts are too hard to wear. Do coaches care if you wear goggles or do they care if you are only good? I got good grades and I am good at basketball. Please answer my question!

I have a travel softball team tryout tomorrow. I have played since I was 8. I'm so nervous.?

I have a travel softball team tryout tomorrow. I have played since I was 8. I'm so nervous. What are some things I can watch the coach to see if he likes me or not. I NEED this team. Life hasn't been that great lately so this would be amazing...

What should I do? Baby and relationship problems?

Our baby is 6 months old and my husband and I are having serious relationship problems. We used to be so happy, I just don't understand how it could have come to this. Although he loves our daughter deeply (that's plain for anyone to see) he has openly admitted that he is struggling to come to terms with being a father and the responsibilities he now has. He also says he feels left out. As a result, everything seems to be left to me and this makes me so resentful because he behaves so selfishly. I am trying hard to include him and get him involved with our daughter but he is always busy with something else and the second she starts to cry, he passes her back to me or just puts her down in her chair where she works herself up into a crying fit because he doesn't know how to deal with her. At the weekend for example, I wanted to have a shower so I asked him he if he could watch the baby for 5 minutes. His response was he is too busy and just leave her to cry! This is typical. Things got so bad a couple of weeks ago and I felt so tired from the pressures of doing it all on my own, I decided to leave with my baby and stay at my parents for a few days. I wanted to give my husband some space to decide if this family life is really what he wants because he just doesn't seem happy anymore - he is particularly unhappy with me and our relationship it seems and is constantly stressed. After some talking, we worked things out and I came home. Things were great for a while. He was helpful, happy and attentive and hardly put the baby down, but then a week later, he was back to his usual moody self. We're back where we started and I'm out of ideas. It breaks my heart because we used to be really happy and it breaks my heart even more when he complains about the baby crying or compares her to other babies who are supposedly better at sleeping at night or whatever. I just feel like he doesn't appreciate the life we have and or beautiful little girl and I just don't know what to do. I am starting to question the point in our relationship because I don't get anything from it right now and there are more times at the minute where I feel like I would find it easier and I would be happier on my own because there wouldn't be this stress. What can I do?

Should I stay with him?

So from what i got at the end of all this all you want is somebody to support you and since he doesnt have a summer job you dont like that? First of all, clearly you live under a rock because it isnt just him having a hard time finding jobs...alot of people all across america are! Summer just started, let him relax and have some fun geesh....

I'd like to tryout for my college baseball team as a freshman pitcher this year. Do I need to bring a bat?

I would bring a bat, even if you don't think you're going to have to hit. If you do need to hit you could always borrow someone else's bat but the coaches might think of you as unprepared or who doesn't care enough. Even as a pitcher they may want you to hit though, just in case they ever do need you to play a position for some reason.

Im feeling resentful that my friends are having kids?

Im 35 and single. All of my closest friends are married and have children. i was so excited when they all had their first (within a few months of each other). It was such an exciting time for all of us. But now all 4 of them are expecting their 2nd child on cue. And somehow i am feeling really resentful and angry. part of me feels like, oh give me a break you guys are all so predictable its pathetic!! take a risk or something different. Of course another part of me feels like im totally left behind. they are having their 2nd, i cant even get a date. kinda sucks.

How to prepare For Freshman Basketball Tryouts?

im average at basketball, im 5'9 white and usually the fastest kid on team, i am not good at the fundamentals of dribbling,crossovers,jabsteps, any drills/tips that would help me out so i can have a realistic shot at making the team?

Are there any other electromagnetic spectrum much more energetic than gamma rays?

If so, did they name it or is it still called gamma? I'm wondering because since we have the capability to make these rays, it's possible that in the universe there could be rays million times more energetic, so I would like to know also what your views on that would be.

Do ppl get more jealous and resentful of beautiful successful people if the successful person was non white?

I'm not sure. You know some people are racist; most likely they don't care about the race you are, but are jealous of you anyway. Some put their race in it because they have nothing better to do but to think of their race as superior.

What are you doing flyers?

Why the hell would you pay jagr 3.3 million dollars for a season? He's going to be 40 years old, and hasn't played in the NHL for three years!!! WTF is the point of that. But thank you penguins for not signing talbot, we appreciate the player. :)

I'm in a very painful and confusing state over this?

If he felt about you the way he feels about his weed you would not have this problem. He loves weed more than you. He may as well love another woman more than you. This will never change and will get worse. I congratulate you on your wisdom not to ruin your life on some weak kneed immature addict, find yourself a real man.

Would you rather.....?

Get 5 million dollars all at the same time or get 100 dollars every Sunday for the rest of your life.

Ps3 Black Ops clan recruiting (WOLF)?

Alright you dont have to be excellent at playing but not noob either lol add me x_ricky99_x or iceninja197 for info about tryouts or other requirements. And say your from yahoo!(WOLF)

How do I become a nicer person?

I always feel people think the worst of me, because I have always been treated as an outsider all my life (I'm a foreigner). Growing up, I used to think everyone was sweet and good hearted, because we are all made in the image of God, but then bullying, backstabbing, ridicule, and scorned by the masses has made me feel extremely resentful towards everyone, and I can't help but conform to these expressions of hate. Scripture clearlys mentions anger and hatred are unrighteous and unholy, and I want to change that, but I can't help believing everyone (not all christians and not only christians) are two faced and nobody really likes each other, not helped by the amount of troll on here. There are too many sarcastic people everywhere and I hate the relentless put downs which brings on more bad feelings! I don't want to feel this way because the bible commands we love even our enemies, no one's perfect and I truly want to make friends with sincere people without suspicions on what grounds friendships are based on and what they really think of me. I want to eradicate these ill feelings. So how can I transform my ill thinking to be more merciful, more unconditional and more kind to others even though I see only hate and arrogance in our culture?

Thursday, July 14, 2011

For those who have dealt with a bully, what was the worst advice you got to get them to stop?

I remember being told to try to make friends with the bully but all I got were my peace-making efforts thrown back in my face and a nasty rumor spread about me. Thankfully middle school is long over and I have no seen her since I entered high school but I'm still kind of resentful of all the bad advice I got rather than someone trying to actively help me.

My young akita mix pup will not leave my old bealge alone! Driving me crazy?

I have a young 4 month akita male mix who will not leave my older beagle basset mix alone. My beagle/basset is very lazy and very submissive, he just like to lounge around. This new puppy is getting overtly aggressive with him, and it's driving me insane! He keeps biting him and barking at him. trying to take his bones, jumping on him whenever he can, and just fighting withhim until well late into the night. I can't get any sleep and it's driving me crazy to have to tell this pup a million times "NO!". What the hell do i do??

Always test data by asking if the reverse is true: What is the one solution Obama has not yet tried--tax cuts?

Actually we all did recieve an income tax cut in the stimulus package. Also the Small Business Assistance bill included a capital gains tax cut for small businesses.

How can I become a better and faster running back?

I'm 6 feet 170 pounds not the fastest but not the slowest. I'm pretty strong, good balance, can catch well, and hard to tackle, what are things I can do to become a faster running back and better all around one too? Oh and I'm 14 and wanna know if i should tryout for varsity this year.

What translation of the Bible is this?

Of course it's an English Standard Version. The NIV has "it does not dishonor others" rather than "it is not rude."

Good eating plan for a 12-year-old girl?

So a good eating plan and an exercise plan would really help me in getting in shape and be able to keep up with the team

Do you think this is a good song for a dance solo?

The lyrics of the song Angie by The Rolling Stones if your going to do a slow dance or the song Uncle John By Eric Lindell,a beautiful song to choose would be Simple Man By Lynyrd Skynyrd.

Does he like me????????

i like this guy for like 6 yrs. we are family friends. the other day we were at a grad party and he was there and we were together and he was asking a million stupid questions like...1. why r u wearing ur hair up 2. why r u wearing a spagetti strap 3. why do i have earrings on 4. can i play basketball using your body ect...(it was getting annoying) Later we went outside and i sat down nxt to his dad and he was at the other end of the table and his dad said to him why dont u 2 go hang out and he goes we just did. then he said yea she called me annoying so i said yea he was asking a million stupid questions so then his dad said maybe hes interested is that so bad. btw the same day he wanted something so he told me to go get it and i said no and he said ur my b***h go get it... Please Help Thanks In Advance!!!!!

Should I evetually tell my daughter she's adopted?

She's a baby now (11 months) but I'm debating on whether I should tell her when she's older. Her adoption was usual. My first husband turned to drugs in the last few hellish years of our marriage. He then was being unfaithful and got another woman pregnant. The mother made it clear that she didn't want the baby and was willing to sign over her rights to the child (she had at least 5 other children that had been taken away by child services for abuse and neglect). I stayed with him because I can't have biological children of my own and thought at least I can get one good thing out of this marriage. She had her and moved away and my ex had cleaned up his act for awhile but went back to drugs shortly after her birth. I left him and took the baby because he cared more about partying and drugs than his daughter. I filed for divorce and he told me that I could have her because he only wanted the baby to make me stay and then he terminated his rights after our divorce. I haven't see him in about 8 months and I have no clue where he is or what he's doing. I met my fiance about 3 weeks after I left my ex and our wedding is in 2.5 months. He's in the process of adopting her. He wants to keep the adoption a secret and make her think we're the bio parents. She's my about my shade has blue eyes and brown hair. We're both brunettes and he has blue eyes so she could definitely pass as our bio child but I don't know. My fiance says that telling her all this may make her hate herself (being willingly given up by both bio parents) but I don't feel comfortable living a lie. I don't want her to hate herself or be resentful towards us, but I think she has a right to know where she came from. Plus, the thing that's really bothering me is the other children involved. I know the bio mother had at least 5 other kids and my daughter deserves to know she has siblings out there but we can't tell her that without telling her everything. I'm so conflicted. For anyone that's ever be in a similar situation, any advice for us?

I am a horrible, repulsive person and I think I may have Aspergers? What should I do?

i recommend seeing an actual psychiatrist. a lot of people diagnose themselves with Asperger's but don't actually have it.

Trying to get close with my brother again after a trauma that occured thirty years ago?

In 1981, my eight-year-old brother Andrew was kidnapped by a family acquaintance and held hostage for three weeks. During this time, he was routinely beaten and sexually abused by his captor. He was also burned with boiling water and forced to listen while his captor made crank calls to our family pretending to be the police, telling us that Andrew had been found. He was rescued after three weeks. It had taken that long to track him down because his captor had them moving around all the time. It's strange to me how a period of time as short as three weeks could destroy so many lives, and leave so many still broken after thirty years. Andrew's body recovered from the trauma, but his mind never healed. The Andrew that came back to us was not the Andrew we had previously known. Before the trauma, Andrew was very social and outgoing. We were only two years apart and always very close. I never had any other brothers or sisters. He was a sweet little boy with a good sense of humor, and, being an older sister, I teased him constantly. Not meanly, but in a playful way. He is the most ticklish person to ever walk planet Earth, and as a little kid he loved it when I tickled his feet. We wrestled and play-fought and just enjoyed being with each other. When he came back, everything changed. Andrew had always been close to me and my parents also, but after he came back he acted like he couldn't even stand the sight of us. I could never understand that. I thought he should be happy to be back with us, people who loved him. He told me when he was older that I was a stranger to him and that there was a gulf separating him from everyone else. He was resentful that other people hadn't been where he had been. When he first came back and started beng like that, I tried so hard to bring him back. I tickle-attacked him like I used to and even though he squirmed and laughed just the same, he didn't enjoy it at all. He wouldn't wrestle either, and didn't seem to want to be around me at all. He did well in school and never had issues with drugs and alcohol, he's been successful in life and has a wife and kids, but for the past thirty years you can tell that something in him is just gone. Something inside him died all those years ago and, despite this, I still hope so hard that I can bring him back. I still see him and our children play together, but that confidence is gone. He underwent counseling as a child and teen but it didn't help him and he doesn't see anyone anymore. I encourage him to see someone about his depression and the pain he still feels but he says it wouldn't make any difference. I'm sorry this post is so long but I just don't know what to do to help him. He's physically healthy and financially stable, but I want to be close to him again and my parents want the same. Is there anything I can do to bring him back, to make us all just a little closer?

I have fallen for my dads best friend?

I have fallen for this guy. We have been completely honest with each other. He won't hang out with me because he doesn't want to be disloyal to my father. If it was just the two of us then everything would be fine. There is an 17 year age gap. He has recently told me that he will not come further into my life because he would feel that he was constantly doing something wrong. And that he felt inappropriate. I should be mad and resentful towards him at a time such as this. But I started falling in love with him, and he continues to talk to me. Making my feelings feel validated each day. Because he doesn't want us to stop talking. I know that it would cost the friendship between him and my dad. When he told me that he wasn't going to be able to see me, it was like my heart was put in a blender and left on ice crush. I know he feels the same about me, but why would he walk away if I made him happy. If I could put his mind at ease, and am only thing missing in his life. Why suppress the emotion. I just don't get it. I have never had somebody hurt me so bad and still continue to be nice to them, and still want them to come into my life, where we can be free with each other. Perhaps I am a fool. I talked to all of my friends and family, and nobody thought it was a big deal. I am 23 and have a right to my own privacy. And if we make each other happy, why can't we be together? Right now, we both have a perpetual heart ache because we are not in each others arms, and have lost each other. I cannot live like this, and I just want him to come into my life where I can cherish him.

Pregnant and really resenting my boyfriend?

Basically my bf is doing my head in! Everything he does is annoying me ie his ps3 games,laptop games,his golf,his football with his mates and his need to have a drink with his brother every weekend. I feel rather resentful of his freedom to do whatever the hell he wants whilst im pregnant and trying to potty train my moody 2 year old (going on 15) as well as doing everything else! Also don't even get me started on the sex! I love sex but since finding out im pregnant ive just lost all interest i didn't last time..i cant stand him even kissing me as he smokes and he stinks! Are my feelings normal or am i just playing on my pregnancy without realizing it lol? Help!?

Pro-Choicers: Why do you say abortion shouldn't be used as birth control?

The reason is that it's expensive and impractical and takes up valuable space, time, and resources to have that many abortions. It's also probably very unhealthy to have that many abortions. Other than the obvious practical considerations listed above (and others that I probably haven't named) I don't see anything directly wrong with it.

Beginner's Girls Lacrosse?

So next year I am planning on trying out for the JV girl's lacrosse team. However, I haven't played lacrosse before, and don't know too much about it. I am hoping to formulate some plan/schedule over the summer to train and prepare for tryouts. Does anyone have any advice from past JV tryout experiences? What is the basis of what I need to know, and what equipment I need to get?

This has been bugging me for a while now..?

You said it. We are putting the crises on ourselves. The only way to solve the economic crisis is to give stimulus (you can hear the Republicans sputtering on their martinis) to the lower middle class. Not the rich, not the upper middle class both of which are doing just fine. The lower middle class is the backbone of our society. These are the people that keep our nation going. When the backbone crumbles so does the body. Give everyone making under 70k at least 50-150k and watch the economy skyrocket. Spread the word. It is the only thing that will save our country.

Help on convincing my friend i got one million dollars?

Ok so the other day i bought a fake million dollar bill and ruffed it up a bit so it looks more realistic. my friends really guliable so i took a pic of it and sent it to her saying, "omg someone in my family died and every one of us got a million dollar bill." she believed this a bit and said " omg bring it to me later so i can see" so im bringing it over to her house later. i also said that eventually h i have to put it in the bank... im using my dad to help with this trick too, so if she says, "wheres yours?" to him he will say,i put it in the bank, jordana is going to soon too." or something like that. i ripped it and crumpled it so it looks real but what else can i do to really trick her.

StaTic=New PS3 MW2 Clan Recruiting?

Hey guys im trying to get started in my new qs clan StaTic so far ive done 20 tryouts and won all of them please guys msg StaTic_xAcEx for tryout on psn

Where do you see WWE in 10 years?

I think the way Vince is running his business i see it at bankruptcy maybe in 10 years. I really do. I've looked at the company's fundamentals and earnings and i can honestly say annually and quarterly the company is going done the tubes. Less cash flow year by year, less earnings, less growth, crappy revenue, balance sheets and income statements to the crap hole, and worst of all WWE values it's company more than it's actually worth. 10 years ago the company was worth in the multi-billions today it claims it's worth 900 million but that's not even true according to their fundamentals. Seriously this PG era is going to make Vince go broke. If they continue with the PG thing and make it even worse do you see the company going out of business in the future?

HELP???? 10 PTS BEST ANSWER???Why is he acting like this?

My ex was mad at me for something so he dumped me. Then he started seeing someone else. For a while it was awkward between us. But then I said hi to him and he acted nice too so it seemed things were less awkward between us. But then the next day he seemed to avoid eye contact and almost give me resentful looks. He does this most of the time, but other days he stares hard at me and tries to get my attention. Makes no sense.

I help with the mile fast!!!?

Not every day but 6 days a week is OK. Run 20 minutes the first week, if you can't run for 20 minutes straight, take walking breaks but keep going. The second week do it for 25 minutes and the third and fourth weeks do it for 30 minutes. On one day instead of running at even pace, run 400 meters 4 to 6 in 2 minutes 7 seconds (8:30 pace). At first rest enough to get through the workout but you are trying to reduce the rest as much as possible.

How many Americans lose their homes every year from medical bills?

I know there are a million bankruptcies every year from medical bills but how many homes are lost every year?

Which Jehovah Witnesses will be called upon to help God judge the trillions of humans waiting in line to get i?

The Bible says 244,000 Jehovah Witnesses will help God judge the trillions of people lined up to get in Heaven after the Rapture comes. But there are an estimated 7 million Jehovah Witnesses so which ones will be called upon to help God? The ones who started the religion?

I don't know where I fit in?

be youself, no one really knows wat i am either. i mix alot of different styles together and seems to work for me. most people say its my best feature.

What category is mostly watched on youtube, how does some ppl make money there?

just would like to know, how do ppl get really good videos on youtube, is there a certain type of thing or topic ppl like to watch ppl, have shows on there, some ppl create video of cartoons on there at what point can you actually make a career when you upload your own videos, i know of some guys who record their skateboarding stunts and get over s million view, just would like how to make your videos popular on youtube

Am i wrong to think that its not ok for my ex to be seeing someone within a couple of days of breaking up?

Me and my now "ex" girlfriend have been together for nearly 4 years now. Things have been abit up and down since i moved with her to another town so she could pursue a new job. I had to restart my study. Not even a week ago (6 days to be exact) we broke up. Prior to these 6 days, she was on a course where i couldn't contact her (rules state there is no communication on this course) for 8 days. During these 8 days, she had met a person she shared a similar understanding, on what grounds i'm not sure, but it was enough to end our relationship as soon as she got home. She had her reasons i understand as our relationship had been rocky, both of us contributing factors, but what gets me is that she's already seeing, staying, with this new guy, whom i offered to meet and did upon our first meeting just to say hi. Is it wrong for me to feel angry and resentful towards her, as i still do care and love her, she says the same, but so soon. Its not even been a week!!

Should I have "humility" and go to this party of a "fake friend" who I don't like?

Don't go and you'll be a bit sorry for a little while. Do go and you'll be kicking your own butt for a long time. Choices, choices , choices!

Having problems with my Sony Mavica finalizing a disc! Help!?

We have a pretty old (not sure how old) Sony Mavica. It's an MVC-C0250. Anyhoo, it's the old kind where you open the back and put a mini-CD in. I hope someone knows what I'm talking about! We're a technologically "behind" family. :) To get the pics onto our computer, you have to "finalize" the disc before you can put it in the CD-rom drive. I am currently trying to do that (and have done it a million times before), but it seems to be frozen. I'm not sure what to do, because I don't want to lose my pics! They are, of course, irreplaceable! Usually it only takes about 3 min. to finalize, but it's going on 30 min. here and nothing is happening. Does anyone know if I can stop the finalizing without losing the pics and try again?

So whats happening with getafe this season with the new owners, any BIG transfers?

i know they acquired 5 free transfers, and have sold players to make 27 million, so whats going on here, i just see a selling club, after the takeover i remember hearing there would be a 40 million summer transfer spending budget. so does that me that 27million and 40 million equals a potential 67 million in transfers? if so aren't they leaving it abit late......................they should be doing what malaga are doing

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

What are some good workouts to prepare for tryouts for the varsity or jv football team?

My best advice for you this summer is to eat healthy, and exercise by doing a lot of running every day. If you do these two things, you will get into better shape for football tryouts, as well as greatly improve your chances of being successful in football this season.

Addicted to my friends? HELP!?

I think its ok to b jealous since ur not going but im sure ur close friendship with them will stay the same so dont sweat it :) hey can u click on my ! and answer one (or more)of my questions thx

I'm fedup with life, need to vent?

Some books that may help you.Prescription For Nutritioan l Healing.Balance Your Brain,Balance Your Life.A Course In Miracles.Look at customer book reviews at Amazon.

Addicted to my friends? HELP!?

Don't worry about it, I know how you feel, my friend's went away for a weekend without me(I had work) but when they got back they told me of all their adventure's and such so I didn't feel left out and plus they brought me stuff back:D

Apparently it's a really bad idea to ask security guards to help you find your car? Never appear lost or dumb?

You sound paranoid and perhaps delusional much of what you shared here has no basis in reality - I suggest you need professional help.

What would be a good song to do a jazz or lyrical varsity dance team tryout to?

I'm trying out for head choreographer for the jazz/lyrical category on my school's varsity dance team. Does anyone have any ideas for good songs to use? I'd prefer one with little to no beat, if you get what I'm saying. Any ideas are welcome. (: Thank you! (:

Shaping up to be a cheerleader?

Okay, so i'm going into high school in the fall, and since i missed tryouts for this year, i have to wait until april-mayish. I'm about 5'6-5'7 and weigh around 130-135 pounds. I would love to lose some belly fat, and tone up about everywhere, especially arms and legs, but they barely need any work. What are some cardio exercises i can do? At the moment i babysit Monday-Friday and i do Just Dance 2 with the kid for about an hour every day. Dancing is good right? I might take her out for a 30 minute to an hour walk every couple of days. My diet is fairly well. I try to get 1,200-1,500 calories a day.

Song for thirteen the musical tryouts?

I would suggest something more upbeat- That show doesn't have any real ballad or laments in it, so although I Dreamed a Dream is an incredible song, it just doesn't make sense to audition for this show with it.

I'm will set straight certain vicious lies about me. What do you think?

the truth. the whole truth and nothing but the truth. when i point a finger at another, four fingers point at me. too much accusing of others lying reflects back. refute and go on.

Envious family members?

I know this might be hard to let this go...but you have to. Their reaction to your achievement may be underwhelming, but that is there thing, not yours. Move on. I was the first person in my family to graduate from college too, and no one knew quite what to make of it. For me, actually, it was pretty much a non-event...about as anti-climatic as the expiration of my military enlistment. They may have similar thoughts. Just let it go. And congratulations too! Well done...

How do I mod Fallout 3 for the PS3?

I have Fallout 3 for the ps3. I already beat the game a million times, and would like to know how I could mod it. I will not jailbreak it, out of the question. I was wondering is there was a way I could do it with a type of USB or similar device. If you could please tell me where I can download the mod, and how to install it on the PS3. Thanks.

My father is dying and I feel nothing at all?

My parents have been divorced for over 10 years and I haven't seen him for a long time; and only when I entered university did he want anything to do with me. He has a habit of making promises and then going back on them and he does not accept my sister who has special needs and now he wants to tell us that he is dying (I found out from a family friend weeks before) and we are not supposed to know. When I found out I felt absolutely nothing and I still do not. I am not sad, angry, resentful; I almost feel happy. Is there something wrong with me?

My own mother does not trust me?

I have good grades, i stay out of trouble, im always in the house and never in the streets, but when ever i wanna hang out with my friends she freaks out because she thinks im going to have sex, or do drugs. I tell my mom each and everyday i would never do that to her, not like how my sister did. My sister smoked weed, drinked, had sex, ran away from the house, skipped class, failed her sophomore year, got pregnant, dropped outta high school, talked back to mother all the time, its like all that i remember from my childhood is my sister and all of her problems. My sister basically ****** my life up. She is older then mme by 7 years and im 15 now. But my point is my sister did all the WRONG things and now i have to suffer the consequences. I have good grades and im a good person its just my mother does not trust me because of my sister. i told my mother a million times IM NOT HER, and that i can think for myself. and that i will never make the same mistakes she made. She just doesn't get it. My mother keeps pushing me away and i dont know what to do. So tell me what you guys think and thanks in advance.

Boyfriend falls asleep at rude times?

I love my boyfriend, but there's one thing he does that REALLY bugs me. I will be trying to talk to him and he will just stop replying and start snoring softly. So then I say, "you're falling asleep" and he gets all mad and goes "NO I'M NOT!!!" and then does the same thing again. He always says that he just doesn't have anything to say, but I'm not that stupid, because he only does it while he's laying down with his eyes closed. He also pretty much immediately falls asleep after orgasm, so there is never any chance of me getting any reciprocation. I understand that this one is not completely his fault, but I've told him a million times that it hurts my feelings. One time he fell asleep in the middle of giving me oral sex, which as you can probably understand, made me feel pretty shitty. I just don't get how he doesn't understand that he's being really rude when he does this. He just says "sorry" really nonchalantly every time I bring it up. I say "it's okay, just try not to do it" but he always does. I just want him to cut it out. It's just really unlike him to be such a jerk.

How to deal with my husband working all the time?

I don't know how to handle this anymore. My husband and I have been married a year. Our first year anniversary just came this past month. I had a full time job, and I got laid off. I am now working part time at a hospital doing registration. I work 2 days a week one week, and 3 days a week the next. I can pick up hours if wanted. My current job should be turning into full time soon. The problem is, my husband is NEVER home. He is constantly working. He works a full time job from 8:30am to 5pm. Then he sometimes works late on Tuesday's and Thursdays because his job sends him to another county.Then he just took on a new job yesterday where he is working weekends. We both make decent money, but where we are living now its hard to pay our bills. I feel as though he doesn't need to work all of these extra hours. I told him that I would make up the difference and let me get another job, but he says that we cannot wait. He is always working 7 days a week. Although we do not have any children, I feel deserted by him. I get all of these mixed emotions like resentful,irritated,and wanting to not be him anymore. He moved me to a city where all of his family and friends are, but moved me away from all of my friends and family. It takes me an hour just to get to where I use to live to see my family. I don't know anyone here and I just feel alone. What can I do/say to my husband to make him stop working so much?

Question about how internet providers work?

EXAMPLE: my name is Mr. Smith and I want to start my own internet provider. i have millions of dollars so money is no object. where do i go or what do i do to start? is there some magic box somewhere that i can pay to plug into that is "the internet"?

How can we respect a president who says racism is why we're protesting rising debt and out-of-control spending?

Because those claims are true. Republicans are adopting irrational positions on debt and the economy, all for the sake of opposing Obama. They've abandoned patriotism and love for country for the sake of spiting Obama. You'd have to be a fool not to believe racist anger is fueling at least some of the most radical of Republican supporters. In purely political terms, the Republican position is idiotic and suicidal.

I help with the mile fast!!!?

Kepp yourself motivated . You dont have to fun everyday but keep probably 2-3 runns in a week. Try doing it and listening to you ipod to get started . PUSH YOURSELF. good luck

Cheerleading, tennis, dance, or volleyball?

JUNIOR ROLLER DERBY (YES I KOW WHAT UR THINKING).But i play it and im 10 and its really really fun so try to look that up. :)

Why am i so spoiled and materialistic?

As i have grown up my family has always been "Upperclass" I was fortunate enough when i was about 11 years old (Now) 16 to live in a 2 million $ house my dad since then has lost that job and we can no longer live in such a expensive abode , now every house we look at i get mad because its not NEAR as nice as that house we once lived in. Why am i like it? its like it set my standers REALLY high just living in that house. and now i find everything we look at / live in crappy.?

Please help! 10 points for best answer!?

Hi, theres this girl I really like called Sarah. I went out with her last year for three months but then she dumped me. Anyway, on Saturday, I asked her out and she said yes, so I told one person who went on to tell Sarah's best friend, Alice. Alice hates me. I dont know why, she just does. So Sarah dumped me because she was worried alice would hate her for our relationship. But, today she rang me and she poked me on facebook. It was suggested last time we went out that we should date in secret. I dont blame her for dumping me for this reason, but I want to ask her out again, but this time, ask if we can date in secret. I'm going park Sunday with a couple of friends and was going to invite her to join us. Also, today in the maths challenge, i was in the same class as her and she popped up on facebook saying "why did you keep staring at me in the maths challenge" and she sent it twice then "/?????????????" Does this imply she is eager to speak to me? She read my facebook conversation on my wall with one of my mates and i told him how much i love her and that i really want to ask her to the park. So, she knows I want her to go to the park with me so when I ring her, what do I say to her to try and get her to come? Thanks a million!

Who will the Panthers end up getting during Free Agency?

The Panthers have to get 7 players to get to the 22-23 man roster size and about 20 million to get to the salary floor. Obvioulsy they are going to have a shopping spree, but who do you think they will get? Stamkos? Lieno? Jagr?

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Really confused in my relationship?

You should feel alot of things during a new relationship, but all of them should make you happy and excited about the future. You seem to be taking the negative turn here and that's going to sabotage the relationship if you don't get your head straight,

I'm starting to go to the gym now but I haven't a clue what exercises to do, help?

what you described is your whole body but anyways lol. since you just starting out the best money you can waste is on a gym membership. then since you don't know what your limits are start light then add more weight i mean start real light. if you want to gain more muscular once you find out what weight you struggle with and what not. you should do a set of 3 with 8-12 reps depends on you there is all kind of exercise to work out your body but ill tell you the basics there bench ,curls, squats triceps extensions leg curls, row , leg extensions theres actually alot. you need to create a big amount of tension in your muscles to make them grow. target on one third of your body. make a routine like arms and legs one day and then shoulders and chest another or u can separate them all. diet is a factor i cant tell you what to do there because it depends on your body. protein shakes are ok but they only help about 10% the rest is up to you also it takes a while even years to get a good body it takes sweat but it feels good. GYM is good i talked to a lot of big guys in the gym they pretty much say the same thing. if you have an ipod theres are some good apps that can help you.

How can I fix my paragraph? Please Help!!?

Every family needs a father figure. Tobias Wolff’s memoir, This Boy’s Life, illustrates a boy’s (Toby) struggle to find himself and a mother in search of financial stability and a complete family. Toby’s family was divided as a child, leaving his father and elder brother on the East Coast and, for the most part, uninvolved in his life. Toby is resentful toward his mother for leaving his father and moving them around fleeing her abusive boyfriend, the conflict mainly begins when she marries his stepfather with whom he doesn't get along. At the same time he also has a close bond with her and is afraid of losing her love.

Ok so i am 5'6 i weight about 170 lbs what position should i tryout for varsity football?

i played oline and dline during my jv years. i have abt only abt 11% fat in my body and the rest is muscles.

Why won't my THM700R4 transmission shift gears?(long but necessary)?

I doubt this link will help any, but I'll let you decide. You may need to call a transmission shop and talk to a very experienced transmission rebuild tech about this one. This is exactly the reason I don't want to rebuild an auto transmission.

Call Of Duty Black Ops Clan Tag?

I am open for tryouts any time. I want to join a clan and be like everyone else. I have been playing for about 5 months!

Is this a bad idea to wear to open gyms/tryouts?

Its not that bad. I mean saying you were on the Harver team and they beat the eastern team it looks good like i was on a better team but i think ill like it here. and showing off the volleyball experience is good as long as the warm up shirt has something where its obvious that it was for volleyball otherwise its not a great idea. I would try and find a volleyball shirt that doesnt show a rival team so prominently. do you have a shirt or something from like a camp or anything? If not id still wear the other team just to show experience and such! Good Luck!!! Hope this helped!!

My girlfriend's mother is resentful of me :/?

Hey, me and my girlfriends mother have a good relationship e.g she is sending me to London on a small break with her daughter as a good gesture. She is very nice to me, but she doesn't like my girlfriend planning things with my family or learning anything from my family. My girlfriend said it's not my fault and her mother loves me but she is resentful towards me because my girlfriend is going away to Spain for two weeks and she will just speak of me, she is spending her free time with me and not with her mother. My girlfriend is desperately trying to go out with her mother but she just ignores her or flips out on her because apparently I am top priority. My mother joked to hers saying 'I will be teaching her how to cook soon ;D', her mother got home and went nuts on her because she was jealous, even though my mother was joking, My girlfriend's mother is putting a lot of stress on our relationship and it's annoying me, I can't confront her because she will go nuts on my girlfriend. I chose to take a year off before going to university this year (to tie up loose ends and progress my relationship, before definitely going next year as it's planned), my girlfriend wants to go to Cardiff uni a year after me then, but her mother won't leave her go even though she was the one who came up with the idea of her going. My girlfriend is really stressed out with GCSE's already and with this it's really hurting both of us :/ What can I do?

Will India be a Developed Nation (like Prosperous Europe)? Or Will India always be just a Third World Country?

It will be 3rd world if they dont start controlling their population since they dont have the land for it.

How would you feel if you started married life in debt?

You aksed about the matter but he didn't like talking about it so you no longer asked? When you are in a marriage my girl, you have the right to know even when you are going to get married. If you had known the amount would it of stopped you from marrying him? If so then I would be concerned about the reason's for mayying the guy. Loosing you job is going to cause there to be debts but it does sound to me like he tries to get another job asap. It is hard work being married, and requires that we love and support each other no matter what. You do need to sit down and come up with an action plan to get rid of the bedt as soon as possible.

What are good skills, tricks, and things to prepare for for High school soccer tryouts?

Hi! High school girls soccer tryouts are nearly 2 years away for me, but I am wondering what things will be good for me to practice in order to making the team. Being on the high school soccer team is one of my dreams and I would really like to be on the JV team by freshman (I know it is hard to make it in that early) or sophomore year and Varsity by Junior/Senior year. I am a soccer player and have been since 2nd grade. (6 years.) I don't play on a travel team but I am one of the best on my rec team. I score most of the goals, and I am a forward. Please, if you are going to respond to this, I would like to know some suggestions from EXPERIENCED soccer players who are on their high school team or have tried out. Thanks so much!!

Could the dutch and duchess of Cambridge be arrested?

ok so im sure we all know about the royal wedding. ive heard the queen can not be arrested but she is expected to follow the law. so is this the same for Kate and William? i mean at the end of the day, they have tried to make it as clear as possible to everyone that they want to be treated the same as everyone (not that everyone can have a 10 million pound wedding curtsey of tax payers!). for example if William randomly went to some guy and beat the Sh*t out of him, and shot him or something, would he be arrested like everyone else?

Can i play Center...?

Hey, 2 months back my college just formed an official football team.I live oustside of the US so basicly football isn't popular here, and we've got a handful of players who played US HighSchool football .Anyways, my coach said that i'll will be playing center, cause i'am good at snapping and i have a broad set of shoulders, and i was able to block a 400 Lbs defensive tackle during practice!!.But the thing is i'am only 200 lbs and 5'9 tall.The final official tryouts will be set in september.So am i fit to play center?

What are some exercises/workouts I can do to get faster sprinting speed?

I have college baseball tryouts in about 2 months and I want to get my speed faster. Right now I am working out legs one day a week and running 4 to 5 days a week about 2-3 miles a day. I started doing 10,20,40 yard sprints once a week. If any one can tell me some more tricks, tips, exercises too do would be great. Specifically my speed is good but when I start at the beginning it takes me a little to long to get to my full speed.

Should I go to a party of a fake friend and insecure family?

I'd tell her how you really feel about her and come clean. Then when she inevitably gets mad at you, because your analysis is accurate, cut ties. People aren't always worth the effort.. And in a way your doing her a disservice by "pretending" to be her friend. It really is messed up..

How does Mock Trial work?

Hi, I'm interested in my high school's mock trial team but haven't had the confidence till now (I'm entering my junior year). I honestly don't have the slightest clue how the process works. Is it like a drama audition where you get a script and read it? Do you tryout for specific positions? If I wanted to be witness how would that work. I really need info and any would be greatly appreciated:)

Earpiercings for a newbie?

Well if you are new to piercing, I say you start out with your ear lobe pierce because it is the easiest and hurts only for abt a week but as you said u want to try something new go for a helix pierce but tht thing is gonna hurt for abt a month and you will not be able to sleep on tht side of the ear.

Just Started Soccer, Tryouts in 2 Months?

I'm 15 years old and I've just now decided to start playing soccer. I've played soccer before at school and with friends, but I've never played on an actual team or club. I'm a decent runner, and I've started running a lot more lately so I don't think endurance will be a problem. Tryouts for my school team are in 2 months, so if I train every day (some of my friends might be able to help me) would it be possible to make the team? Most of the kids on the team have already been playing for a long time, but I'm willing to work extremely hard.

My boyfriend always puts himself first. How can I tell him without turning it into an argument?

You make it seem like he doesn't put you first but maybe to him you aren't first. You may think that you are serious but maybe to him it's not. He may be choosing his family over you because he knows they will always be there for him and maybe someday you won't.My ex loved his dog more than me, i wasn't always there but his dog was- i was ok when we broke up because i knew that it suited him better. You obviously love him and don't want to break up, think to see if him being egotistical is changeable, because most of the time it's not.

How do I make the team?

So I'm going to tryout for highschool soccer ( I've been working out everyday and running 3 or more miles a day) and I have to mak either the JV team or Varsity and im a freshmen how do I make the team any ideas????????oh and ive played soccer for 9 years

What do I do about my dog? She got shot?

Definitely take her to the emergency vet. She needs something ease the pain and the wound needs to be looked at and treated so it does not get infected. Tomorrow's too late. She is not being dramatic, she is hurting, just like a person might be if they had been shot. Don't prolong suffering to save a dime, let someone see her right now.

How to prepare for a freshman soccer tryout?

I'm entering 9th grade this year and I promised my friend I'd try out with her. I tried out for modified team in both 7th and 8th grade and did not make it. I think I would have made it last year, but because of budget cuts, freshman soccer was cut this past year, and reinstated for this coming year. So, what should I be practicing? I haven't played in a year or two. I can run kinda fast, but only for a short time. I can run longer at a slower pace. I used to play my best as a defender, but I'd like to try goalie. I live near a park, so I can practice there, and the tryouts are late August. If anyone can help, thanks :)

Sex!!!!!!!!with my vagina?

now that i got ur attention, pls help,me and my cousin have been having sexual attention an like every time i go on facebook an c something that he posted im just lost in his words i mean he really tries to b a great poet an he kinda is but hes also kinda really bad but he has like a million friends an he could get any girl he wants. last weekend we were up north with family an when we were there we went swimming and im not sure but i think he was checking me out and we rented a movie a scary one not to him but to me i dont know i mean i like kinda start flirting but in a way where no one would notice it i suck at flirting by the by an i think hes flirting with me were not close but hes been trying to speak to me more an right now on another window im on facebook and im waiting for him to come on i dont want incest well it wouldnt really be cuz were really related i really want more though i mean i never felt this way about a bf what do i do im really confused i mean i know there really is no problem but if u see the point i mean pls help with real oopinionand try to answer with a lot of words if u u know what i mean. sorry if i used text language im in a rush